Book Review Credit

I would like to credit my previous post to the actual Passionate Housewives, Desperate for God Blog. Hope you all have a beautiful day!

Passionate Housewives, Desperate for God: A Book Review

Here is a book worthy of your time! I have been eyeing out this book for a long time and just as Marci in her review shares her reasons for not reading many books on being a wife, I share the same reasons, but this book is an exception. I have not yet read it myself, but I have been following their reviews and the blogs of the authors for quite some time now. I am in that place now in my life where I think it's time I ought to just go ahead and buy the book as a reminder of what it is to fulfill God's calling in our lives as mother's, as wives.

Marci's Review

For the most part I don’t read many books on being a wife. They tend to make me plummet into an abyss of perfectionism and in turn make my marriage worse. That said, I loved Passionate Housewives Desperate for God. It is a book that unashamedly challenges the standard cultural perceptions of homemaking, encourages and gives hope in the role of homemaker, and it examines the roles of wife and mother in the light of God’s perfect plan. The authors start off by dispelling common cultural myths about what a housewife is: a mindless maid for a tyrannical husband, the “desperate” housewife living a double life, or more commonly a woman who feels obligated to do her duty at home while leaving her dreams at the door. Though these myths may be founded on some reality, the author’s seek to, “lay aside the stereotypes and glamorized myths and discover the rare jewel of godly womanhood—to rediscover what it means to be a passionate housewife ‘desperate’ for God alone!” They challenged many presumptions I have as a wife and mother; the need for “me time”, my personal needs vs. serving others, the advice of self-help gurus, and the subtle messages that we ingest through living in a self-centered society. Romans 12:2 says, “And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is good and acceptable and the perfect will of God.” This challenge really helped me to look at the things that were influencing me and ultimately stealing the joy I have for my position as a wife and mother.

More than anything I loved the encouragement and perspective this book provided on the unique and special role of homemaker. I think the thing that makes me most unsatisfied as a wife is the feeling that my job is futile and never ending. Laundry is always dirty no matter how much I wash, the work seems never ending and that I must be wasting my God-given talents by “slaving away” in my home.

I gained new perspective on the work of home making through these words by Martin Luther, “What you do in your house is worth as much as if you did them up in heaven for our Lord God. We should accustom ourselves to think of our position and work as sacred and well-pleasing to God...”
The authors also point out that homemaking is one of the only jobs where the worker will see the direct results of their work, will experience immediate benefits from, and that the worker at home is truly their own manager. The combination of these two insights has changed how I feel about working in my home and for my family. I now see that what I do every day does have eternal importance, if done with a heart of service to the Lord, and that I have so much more freedom working in my home than I would working as an employee to someone else. Lastly, I loved how the author’s unfolded the role of wife and mother in light of the plan God has put in his Word. Though God’s plan is a far cry from the realities of homemaking in our society and even in my life, it encouraged me to change my perceptions, my selfishness and to stop being influenced by the shallow role that the world has made being a wife and mother into.

It encouraged me to find greater satisfaction and passion in life through the only one that can provide true and lasting satisfaction, “Jesus answered and said to her, ‘Whoever drinks this water will thirst again, but whoever drinks the water I shall give to him will never thirst. But the water I give him will become in him a fountain of water springing up into everlasting life.” (John 4:13-14).

Really, I have been dealing with these own issues in my life for too long now. Normally, I am focused and know exactly what my purpose is and what my vision is as a wife and as a mother..... but lately my mindset has been quite the opposite. I have been holding on to a "ME" kind of attitude. And this kind of attitude has only left me with discontentment and ungratefulness for the blessings that immediately surround me daily. I have not been able to see clearly the blessings that God has intended my family, my children, my husband to be to me. And really, when I am not walking in God's will for my life and walking in my own ways or allowing the ways of this world to influence me I am quick to end up in the danger zone. I have been experiencing the repercussions on relying on those influences and feelings. Not a good thing at all.... Why am I sharing this? Because I know that we as women, housewives, mother's, have a unique calling, a precious calling and oh how challenging it is at times, but let me promise you that God's Word is the final authority above all and only He can fill what we are missing or what we need and when we we rely on Him and only Him than the purpose that we have for our life would be carried out with passion, not allowing our joy to be stolen. Let us rejoice in the joyful life God has so promised us!

My sweet Jesus, I am so sorry for allowing my self to be influenced by the ways of this world. I am sorry for always seeking after my wants, my desires, and not considering your truth to be my sole reason for living. Oh how easy it is to get lost. It says in your word,
A person who strays away from home is like a bird that strays away from it's nest.

Proverbs 27:8

How does a baby bird, aside from the safety of his nest, feed himself? Lord , You are good and I just want to praise you for your faithfulness in my life and never allowing me to get too far from my nest without rescuing me. I love you!

Love

Why do I do the things I do for my children? Well, because I love them. Love goes around...if you give it, you will receive it. I am overwhelmed with the love my children show me through the many things they do for me. Cody, always lending a helping hand in many ways; Luke is quite the big brother to little "A"..always pitching in when I'm busy or even need a break; Seth, always drawing me such sweet pictures; Olivia, finding new ways to make things pretty for me; and little miss Tori never fails to give me a big smile; A.J, just being his cute self...that is love.

Last week in our devotion time this is what we read:

Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. He who does not love does not know God, for God is love. In this the love of God was manifested toward us, that God has sent His only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through Him. In this is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.
1John 4:7-11
Thank you Jesus for your LOVE!